Too Bad She Hates Church

Wow! A pastor tells his pulpit, no wait challenges his married parishioners to have with each other for seven days straight. Now, I'm more of a semi-religious guy myself. After all, everyone has a choice and God gave them that choice. The pastor says "sex comes from God!" People of faith say God created everything everything, so good point. People of little or no faith like to ask if sex is so sinful then why did God make it so pleasurable? Good point there too. I wonder if there is a subtle way to bring this up in casual conversation. I just have a feeling she'd roll her eyes. I have a feeling if married couples had more sex, or more intimate playing, etc then divorce numbers would be much lower as would the numbers of spouses who cheat.

We All Have Double Lives

This article caught my eye this morning.

'Virtual affair leads to real divorce...'

I'm sure even I'd be surprised at the number of the people having online 'secret lives.' I think a lot of people have something they are not getting at home whether it be sex, affection, attention, and in some extreme cases, love. I also have to tip my hat to the creator of second life. Talk about a brilliant business venture. Give people a chance (for a fee) to be anyone they wanted and to do anything they wanted without consequence. Now, if I messed with that, I would have more than one character. One would probably be a Charles Bronson type who wanders dangerous parts at night. Another would be a billionaire who frequented strip clubs and had sex with all the strippers.

Vampire Girl

The Evil One had an interesting post about her and Max Schreck apparently. ;-) It reminded me of my night with a vampire chick. It was one of those "one in a million" stories. I saw her at a concert. I didn't talk to her because I was too shy. I found her to be gorgeous. Long, flowing red hair, and glasses. She also had a voluptuous body. Well, a few months later I saw her at a college party. This gave me a chance to chat with her. We hit it off and went out the next week. That night I gave her hug and managed to sneak a kiss in. We then went running through the sprinklers on campus kissing. I know, that sounds like a story book romance right. Well over the next few weeks she revealed herself to be a flake. Of course at that time, I was still a virgin and very naive and kept trying to keep the relationship alive. She got tired of me and instead of talking to me avoided me. Finally I confronted her and told her how I felt and I was right. So we broke up. We still hung out as friends and soon got back together. From there we got physically closer, doing things I'd never done before. So of course my feelings and hormones were running around like rioters in the streets in the Los Angeles. One night she came to my room and we started getting naked. She suddenly asked if I had a razor. Well, I had a shaving razor but couldn't imagine what she needed to shave right there it was already shaved. She said she wanted to cut me and drink my blood. Alarm bells started ringing internally. I politely said no. Then the night moves and due to my inexperience and hopped up feelings, things don't work quite as well as they should have. She then jumped up and yelled at me and stormed out of the room. For the next few hours I thought the world had ended. Eventually I got over her. She turned out to be more of a twit than I realized and everyone else saw it too. Of course I do credit her with a lot of first time experiences and a life lesson about relationships. I also learned how important it is to be kind, forgiving, and gentle with people in intimate settings. If a woman has certain fears, or if a man can't rise to the occasion, their partner should be understanding and helpful, not condescending or upset. So, in that aspect, I do thank L. In other aspects, she can take a long walk off a short pier!

Probably a Good Thing

Before her trip fell through at the last minute I hinted at a lady colleague that I wasn't doing anything one night. Part in conversation, part in ulterior motive because her and I have had so many personal conversations about sex lives. The things she told me amazed me, and excited me too. To my amazement she called my phone. I missed the call. Later on I returned her call and she told me she was inviting me over to see a movie in her movie room. She's told me she has a TV by a 3 piece sectional. She's told me that the sectional allows for all kinds of sex positions. Naturally my mind wonders to what could have happened had I actually been alone last week. I fantasize about the movie blaring overhead, the lights out, maybe some alcohol involved. Then we ignore the movie and the conversation drifts back to sex. Then we become more bold and get closer, light contact, then some cuddling. Then I'd probably slowly turn her towards me to kiss her while wrapping her body against mine...

It's probably a good thing I wasn't left alone last week.

Decision Made For Me

I had made plans for a road trip this weekend. We're going to meet some friends and make a day out of it. Then my wife hears of another trip and decides she is going to take that one instead. Now, I'm not a controlling type and wouldn't tell her what to do. Yet I did wonder why I would get blown off. Well actually I do know why, I just wondered if it was well the "right" thing. Had the shoe been on the other foot I'd have politely declined and said I had plans with my wife. Well, her other trip fell through so this one is back on. Which is good. Because if I was going to have to entertain myself for the whole weekend there is no saying what I would have done. Boredom and reluctant celibacy make for strange behavior.

Baby Momma Monday

This weeks' BMM is Ruth Mcardle aka Cherrie Blue with My Life With the Thrill Kill Kult and originally with Lords of Acid.

Halloween

I hope everyone had a good Halloween. We went to a costume party. I actually had fun. I rarely have fun at parties anymore. Well it helps this is my crowd. My wife was a red devil. She looked great. I took a lot of pictures. She, and her friend were taking 'erotic' pictures with the scary mannequins. Now, since my wife told me she has no sex drive a long time ago, why is she posing erotically with mannequins? Why can't she make those poses with me in private? Oh well. Part of me says these are the cards I've been dealt so I should just accept it and play the hand. The other part of me says I need to do something for me. It's like I have an angel on one shoulder and a little devil on the other. I was told I may have a free day to myself this weekend. If I'm going to do anything for myself, that will be the time. We shall see.

Direction

This week started off lousy. I paid my cell bill with a clenched fist. I couldn't understand why the bill was so damn high. Then I saw why. My mobile internet usage! Damn me! I get bored rather easily these days. So, I would log onto the internet via cell phone and check email and such. So, that was a wake up call. I paid it and after next month when the rest of the charges come in and I will be done with that. I've also been thinking about this blog. It's really not going anywhere. I have two other blogs aside from this one and none of them are really going anywhere. I don't see myself shutting down. I enjoy blogging too much. I just need to put on my creative cap and come up with something interesting. Perhaps I will make this less of a sex blog and more of a life blog, the good and the bad. Maybe become that individual you all know from a distance.