For boredom I googled the topic "how to tell if your spouse is cheating on you." A lot of websites spring up. For example, I found this site. This site. This site. This site. This site. This site. This site. Well, you get my drift. I wonder exactly what percentage of marriages get hit by the fist of infidelity. My wife one time said that almost all marriages have one (or both) partners having an affair. I developed two theories on why people cheat.
1-They are just greedy, disrespectful to their spouse, and all around asshole.
2-The cheater isn't getting his/her needs met at home and look for it elsewhere.
Many of these signs seem to show up in most relationships. I think many spouses have secrets from each other. Or are they supposed to? Just what evidence is sufficient (aside from a confession) to show someone is having an affair? I read these and some of them apply to me, some apply to my wife. At one point, we didn't have sex in three years. Then one night we had sex, and a year later, still haven't. I don't know what to think. I mean, is there a reason for a woman to take birth control pills if she's not having sex with her husband?
Saturday, August 30, 2008
Thursday, August 28, 2008
How did I come up with the title?
I know you're wondering where I came up with this catchy blog title. Well, sad to say I'm not a genius. I just like music and this song.
About Me
This is the second reincarnation of this blog. The first time I started this blog all I had were unfulfilled wishes. I still have those, but I have more to write about. Before I do let me give a little information about myself.
I grew up relatively sheltered. The most intimate I was in high school was kissing. I avoided mono unlike just about everyone else I went to school with. I wanted to have sex, but the chance never presented itself.
In college I tried real hard to get laid. That was a mistake, should have never tried, just go with the flow. I found myself in the "big brother" role or as Chris Rock would say "in the friends zone." I had some chances, but due to naivety (or in one case too much alcohol) I missed out on them. I still kick myself for missing out.
My last week in college I finally had sex, and yes it was my first time. It was with an older woman and I met her online. I finished college and met another woman and had sex with her.
It would be another two long years before I had sex again. That was a disaster.
A year later I had my first (and so far only) friends with benefits-type relationship. It was beautiful. However she up and left for another city because she wanted a new life and a new start. I can hardly blame her, but I do miss her at times.
I then met and married a wonderful woman. As with many cases things were great at the start. However, over time our sex life fizzled and died. We've talked about it but she just isn't interested in sex anymore. It's driving me nuts so I've had to find other means to fulfill my needs.
I grew up relatively sheltered. The most intimate I was in high school was kissing. I avoided mono unlike just about everyone else I went to school with. I wanted to have sex, but the chance never presented itself.
In college I tried real hard to get laid. That was a mistake, should have never tried, just go with the flow. I found myself in the "big brother" role or as Chris Rock would say "in the friends zone." I had some chances, but due to naivety (or in one case too much alcohol) I missed out on them. I still kick myself for missing out.
My last week in college I finally had sex, and yes it was my first time. It was with an older woman and I met her online. I finished college and met another woman and had sex with her.
It would be another two long years before I had sex again. That was a disaster.
A year later I had my first (and so far only) friends with benefits-type relationship. It was beautiful. However she up and left for another city because she wanted a new life and a new start. I can hardly blame her, but I do miss her at times.
I then met and married a wonderful woman. As with many cases things were great at the start. However, over time our sex life fizzled and died. We've talked about it but she just isn't interested in sex anymore. It's driving me nuts so I've had to find other means to fulfill my needs.
Friday, August 22, 2008
Olympic Sex
Can't say I'm really surprised by this article about a big post Olympic bash filled with sex. I doubt it's like an orgy scene out of a porno, but I'm sure athletes, glad the pressure and strain of their physical competitions is over look to let off a little steam. With all the gorgeous bodies running, and the attitudes about sex (particularly American and European) it's only natural that some of the athletes would be willing to play around. Especially with the rare opportunity to have a 'foreign affair.'
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Teacher & Prostitute
This is a story the media loves to sink their teeth into. High school teacher Laurie Lewis was arrested in Houston, TX, during a prostitution sting. I can only imagine the buzz around the school to find out the theater teacher is also a call girl. I know this isn't a great picture, but I bet she cleans up real nicely. I imagine most of the male students wished they would have known. They were probably already fantasizing about her anyway. Another aspect to this story is she isn't the usual butt-ugly crack head prostitute we see on TV. This one could be the lady next door (in a manner of speaking she is) that any red blooded man would want to bring to his bed when his wife left town.
Monday, August 11, 2008
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